A while back, we had a blowout on Texas State Highway 16, on our way into Bandera, about 20 minutes from our home.
It was sizzling hot, and I was still recovering from a recent surgery. I pulled into the drive leading up to Bandera Electric Cooperation and opened my trunk to get the jack and spare tire out.

A man, Otto, we believe is his name stopped. He worked there and his shift was over, but insisted on helping. He was a Godsend. What a blessing. We prayed for him and thanked him for what he did.
It’s a reminder of this message sent to me recently:
Twice this week, I have watched an elderly individual fade into the busy life in which we all live.
One man just needed Panadol for his wife but the shop assistant simply said it’s in ‘6’. But he struggled to navigate the supermarket and as I watched him go in the wrong direction, I left all my groceries and took him where he needed to go.

Today, I watched an elderly man struggle in the heat, who had obviously had a fall with a huge scrape and blood on his leg. He walked past people in the cafe, while he slowly made his way to his car.
Not one person stopped. Or looked. Or acknowledged him.
I took him to his car and checked he was ok. He told me he had a fall and wasn’t sure how the air conditioner worked in his car, so he just didn’t use it. I sat with him, until his air conditioning kicked in and heard him talk about the old frail body that he is in, that fails him now, every single day.
When you see an elderly person walking down the street, searching in the grocery store, or struggling to their car, take a minute out of your busy schedule and ask them if they need a hand.

Think about your grandparents and your parents and how upset you would be if someone didn’t stop to help them. But more, think of them as you.
Once upon a time, they were you. They were busy, they had work, they had children, they were able.
Today, they are just in an older body that is not going as fast as it used to, and this busy life is confusing. They deserve our utmost respect and consideration.

One day it will be you, it will be us. I wish more people thought about them and acknowledged them for their admirable existence, and I hope someday, not that far away, someone does it for me.
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CINDY LEAL MASSEY, TEXAS AUTHOR



How true that is I was brought up to respect ur elders my mother always said we all get a turn at it show respect although I live in “Snow bird” AZ 35k flock to Superstition Mountain I swear I’m amazed how they get here their driving skills r lil scary if they take off those worthless mask they probably see and stop passing out I ask them all to refresh their driving skills before winter return now I’m 70 so I’m probably not any better but the hot sweetness of summer they return home and us locals have r roads back no lines at restaurants and no complaints. Hug a senior today the knowledge they have is priceless 😁
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Thank you Gene. Dodie & I are just a few years behind you. She lived in Phoenix for close to 40 years, so she’s definitely aware of what you’re talking about. We certainly appreciate your readership and comments.
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Thank you for your kindness!
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I know what you are talking about. When my friend Lorree was recovering from an accident in which she was hit by a logging truck, with multiple injuries, and just learning to get around again, I would take her grocery shopping. She was very slow-moving at this stage, and obviously injured. I was horrified to see
that most people in the store would just as soon run over her as look at her!
Even the old people did it. You are right; one day it will be us, and we reap what
we sow. Love intentionally.
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So sad to hear about Lorree. How is she doing? Yes, love intentionality!
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That happened over five years ago now. It’s been a long recovery, but she is very intelligent and diligent; there was some brain trauma, but minimal. Her Irishness helps; can’t put her down. The progress she’s made is remarkable.
Thank you for asking, and please pray for her when you remember her.
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Yes, of course. God Bless. Thank you for letting us know.
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